Teenagehood today looks very different than it used to. Kids are home more and growing up in a world that’s far more supervised and a lot less rebellious. What happened to the sneaking out, the secrets, and the harmless mistakes that turned into life lessons (and great stories)? We grew up making questionable choices, pushing boundaries, and learning the hard way—and somehow, we turned out just fine. These days, even a small act of rebellion can earn a kid a harsh label. But aren’t teenagers supposed to mess up a little? In this episode, we’re reflecting on how much has changed and what today’s teens are missing out on.

Nat has a boyfriend. He lives down the street. She’s never met him. But she has lusted after him for years and is fully convinced they’d be perfect together… despite knowing absolutely nothing about him—not even his name. And just to keep things balanced, we (aka Cat) come to a shocking realization by the end of this episode that Nat may actually be kind of boring for her own imaginary boyfriend.

Watching our daughters compete in dance this past weekend got us thinking about the life lessons they’re learning. They practice endlessly for a routine they only get one shot at, and they’re often really tough on themselves. A lot of people have walked away from dance because of the coaching culture—the yelling, the idea that tough coaching is the only way to make kids listen. If we normalize it and don’t push back, we’re passing the torch on what’s considered acceptable.

Cesalina Gracie is a self-defense expert, entrepreneur, and athlete on a mission to help girls and women navigate life with confidence and strength. A passionate advocate for girls’ education, positive psychology, and women’s rights, she’s traveled across five continents delivering keynotes and workshops that empower women to unlock their inner champion. And trust us—this conversation isn’t just for the girls. It’s one we all need to hear. The way you carry yourself can make you a target, and a strong voice with conviction is just as important as standing tall. This episode will change the way you think about body language, self-assurance, and the small but powerful ways we can help the next generation walk through the world with strength. For more on Cesalina, follow her @cesagracie.

We know Tamron Hall as a two-time Emmy Award-winning television host and executive producer, but did you know she’s now a children’s book author too? We’ve shared so many fun moments with Tamron over the years, so getting to sit down with her to chat about Harlem Honey: The Adventures of a Curious Kid was an absolute blast. Tamron shares how her son’s endless curiosity and sense of wonder inspired Harlem Honey, bringing to life a story that captures the joy of discovering the world around you. Grab your copy here: https://www.harpercollins.com/products/harlem-honey-tamron-hall

We were a little all over the map on this episode. First, we dive into whether our kids are destined to choose someone completely opposite from us. Then, we take a little detour into Nat’s sleeping pills before diving into the future—why the next generation will probably hate anyone over 45 for ruining everything with technology, and how they just might take it all back. We’re talking about originality becoming the ultimate currency, the comeback of soft skills and trade jobs, and why no matter how advanced AI gets, it’ll never replace human creativity.

Emojis aren’t just cute little symbols. Our kids are using them to tell a story, and most parents have no clue what they actually mean. In this episode, we dive into the Netflix show "Adolescence" and how we often hear parents say the words “my kid would never”. Those words might be the most naive thing you can say as a parent. It’s our job to set the boundaries, to teach them how to navigate a device that can expose them to things they’re not ready for. If we don’t understand the way they use their phones, how can we help them build a healthy relationship with technology?

Marriage or a commitment isn’t just one relationship—it’s three in one: the sexual, the stable, and the loving. But nobody teaches us how important that friendship piece is! Marriage is so freaking complicated and nothing like Temptation Island. That honeymoon-phase chemistry looks amazing on TV, but in real life it's a whole different story. This is part one, and next week, we’ll dive into what it takes to keep all three relationships thriving for the long haul!

In Mexico, the drugstore shelves are stocked with literally everything—no prescription, no hassle. Meanwhile, back home, you need a doctor’s note, two forms of ID, and a secret handshake just to get basic meds. We shared a few post-vacation thoughts and then totally pivoted to talk about hormones and what’s next for us.

Gone are the days when teens only worried about homework and who was dating who—now they’re plugged into everything from politics to world events before we’ve even had our first sip of coffee. But do we really know what they’re consuming and how it’s affecting them? This week, we’re discussing the blind spots we have as parents—the apps we don’t understand, the belief that our kids are immune, and the reality that they’re always one step ahead. How do we raise kids who can navigate the world, build healthy relationships (with their phones and real people), and step into adulthood ready—not reliant on us or their screens?

Before you say I do, do you ask the real questions—like, “How do you load the dishwasher?” This week, we’re diving into the little (but actually huge) things that shape relationships, from early childhood Sunday dinners to the ways our parents showed love. Did you grow up in a house full of energy or one where you could hear a pin drop? Were birthday gifts an event or was one gift plenty? And of course, the ultimate marriage mystery—why do husbands feel the need to reload the dishwasher after we’ve already done it?

This episode may not be an easy listen, but it’s an important one. The reality is, Gabby Petito could have been any of our daughters. Even if you already know the details, this new documentary offers a fresh perspective—a family's perspective. The relationship was controlling, but as parents, how do we help our adult children in situations like this? We’re so thankful her parents shared their story so openly.

As parents, we need to wake up—our teenagers have never known a world without Snapchat, and there’s an entire set of unwritten rules that no adult has subscribed to, checked, or even questioned. So, what do we do? Banning the phone isn’t the answer, but keeping the conversation going is. The unavoidable reality is that these devices are now their wallets, their transit passes, and their safety nets. It’s complicated, it’s frustrating, and we’re here to try and figure this world out "alongside" our children.

You know Fridays are reserved for the fun stuff, and this week, we're bringing you some wild (and wacky) hookup stories—plus proof that there really is someone out there for everyone, even those who enjoy the unexpected allure of sexy talk… in a Yoda voice. Whether you're here for the laughs or just to feel better about your own dating history, we’ve got you covered.

When we sat down to talk about one of the biggest constants in our lives, we realized it was something so simple—Starbucks. It’s been there through all the kids and building our business. Here’s our look back at what Starbucks has meant to us over the years.

We sat down with The Tea: The Talk author Alicia Crespin for a candid chat about navigating those tricky (and often awkward) conversations with our kids. From puberty to relationships to the questions that catch us completely off guard, Alicia shares her wisdom on how to approach “the talk” with confidence—and maybe even a little humor. The Tea: The Talk isn’t just a parenting book; it’s a thought-provoking collection of stories from over 30 women, spilling the tea on their pasts. Because when we break the silence on stigmatized topics, we can empower the next generation. Known for her no-nonsense approach to tough conversations, Alicia is on a mission to make sure the next generation is the best one yet. For more on Alicia find her at https://www.aliciacrespin.com and  @spilltheteawithalicia and head over to Amazon to get a copy of “The Talk”.

We’re covering it all—starting with Nat looking damn good naked (and we are here for it). Then, we dream up the ultimate perimenopause retreat—a place where women can be treated like royalty and reset their mental health. And because we never miss a chance to talk about things we should know more about, we dive into prostate checks for men and what we actually know (or don’t know!) about them. Are they the male equivalent of a pap smear?

This week we chatted about the ‘launching age for teens’ and how we feel that realistically it is no longer 18. Is this a reflection of how we parent? Some kids in the US will 'reclassify' to improve grades or become more competitive in sports. It seems like a positive spin when your kid is not ready for university. Is that the right approach? We also take an unexpected turn from a parenting podcast to a religious one at the end. Tune in as we try and figure it all out.

Women run differently than men, and let’s be honest—we understand men way more than they understand us. Could a younger male and an older female actually work better together? Different generations bring different perspectives. When you mix experience with curiosity, wisdom with fresh energy, something clicks. A young male mind that’s still learning isn’t insecure—he’s open, he’s adaptable, and maybe, just maybe, that’s where the magic is.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in a rut—whether it’s in parenting, work, relationships, or just life in general—you’re not alone. In this episode, we’re continuing last week’s conversation on how to shake things up and actually start feeling like yourself again. We’re diving into the small shifts that make a big difference, the habits and changes that help us break free, and why it’s so easy to stay in a rut—plus, how to push past the excuses.